Staying Focused

I've been having trouble lately staying focused on my personal goal to attend graduate school for becoming a community counselor. I don't doubt for second that this career is an ideal and rewarding path for me. Yet...I haven't made it real enough yet.

I'm guilty of letting it slide. Taking the easy path. Or so I tricked myself into believing.

The path I have historically taken which leads me to marginal success and a mediocre feeling of accomplishment. Did I mention zero in the realm of fulfillment and feeling of usefulness to the world?

Yeah...not a winning formula, though I've stayed alive.

When I look back on that formula, I'm still living it in many ways. Though I have my graduate school interview in tote, I'm not there yet. I want to keep the passion for this career path a daily felt experience. But I let it slide. I don't forget, but I don't stay envigorated by it. I have become consumed by external things, and as a result become grumpy and close to resentful about those other things. Even just the laundry. Or the dishes. Or the fact I have a dirty kitchen floor. None of these things will cause the earth to shift its course, no. Yet they weigh on the spirit if you let them.

So how to stay focused? Devotion. I've realized it takes attention, foster, love, and commitment to your dreams. If you drop them, they will melt and fall beneath the surface of the makings of everyday life. Yet if you foster and hold them tender, I think it's possible they become a part of your everyday life.

This is what I'm embarking on. It's simply and totally huge and enlivening. I'm so not sure how it will look and evolve, and that's precisely how I know I'm on the path to success.

Musings on Being Useful

So much has gone on...I've gotten caught up and neglected to commit to an important act that nourishes me, what pleases me. I'm certain I have something useful to share in my writing, but yet, when in the midst, I simply don't commit to doing so.

I’ve done a lot of writing over the last few weeks, just none in this blog. Which, kinda goes against my proclamation several weeks back to really hunker down and post more…So, it’s time to play catch up and take a look at what went wrong the last time I committed to sticking to it. This has me thinking about the things that would be best to hone in on, to share on the blog in other words. I feel like blog posts need to be useful , among other things. No pressure, right? But in all reality, it's not like I have a huge following with people chomping at the bit! So really...its NOT huge pressure!

I think part of my delay is my historical tendency to hold too tightly those things that are dear to me. Heck I even do this with my dog sometimes! But more importantly with the esoteric side of life, I do it by witholding. It's a combination of not doing it justice (as in, I can't possibly put that into words) and I think a fear of losing "what's good" if I open up. I've learned (slowly) that this is a falsehood. No amount of goodness can really be taken from you by sharing it with others, with the world for that matter. In fact, it only expands and inspires.

Duh.

OK, so, my last problem pertaining to this is being wrapped up in being too busy and not putting a schedule together to share the useful thoughts (or thoughts on being useful, as is the case here). In theory, if I make time for it, it will come. Even my "hoarding the goods" tendency can be overcome by my excitement to share something positive.